The classical pagan world was a cesspit. These days our moralistic, sniffy culture has (Victorian-like) decided that what went on in Roman and Greek households ought not to be mentioned. Instead it must be made a matter of collective amnesia. Sarah Ruden has done us all a favour by putting the degradation and filth front and centre once again.
On the matter of homosexuality in general, she affirms that Paul's Jewish household would have held to the "bread-and-butter" teaching of the Old Covenant scriptures and the rabbis. "Jewish teaching was clear," she writes. "Homosexual acts were an abomination." [Paul Among the People: The Apostle Reinterpreted and Reimagined In His Own Time (New York: Pantheon Books, 2010), p. 48.] But the Greco-Roman world was another matter entirely.
She continues, describing the norm in towns throughout the Empire:
Among the female prostitutes on the streets, or in the windows or doorways of brothels, were males, on average a lot younger. . . . [Paul] would know from his non-Jewish friends that household slaves normally were less respected as outlets for bodily functions than were the household toilets, and that a sanctioned role of slave boys was anal sex with free adults. [Ibid.]Anal sex with household slave boys was supposed to be violent and an act of rape.